What is cyberbullying? It is using the Internet, primarily social media and messaging apps, to bully people using the platforms. It is just like the bullying you would see elsewhere, but online. Since Internet usage became available and prevalent worldwide, cyberbullying has become a genuine problem for many. So much so that there are now laws to protect against it, resources available to those subject to it, and trying to teach others what to do when they are bullied.
Right now, the primary victims of cyberbullying seem to be teenagers. Internet access and social media platforms that sometimes have overly complicated methods to protect underage users allow bullying to occur at an age when this type of attack can be overwhelming and extremely dangerous within this vulnerable population. There have been cases of cyberbullying that ended with suicides or attempted suicides.
What should we watch for?
Protecting yourself and others from cyberbullying can be a confusing and frustrating task. How do you know when someone is bullying? What do you do if you think you are the target of it? Well, there are several things to look for, such as:
– Hurtful texts/messages
– Defamation/libel/slander
– Pranking (sending fake messages or information)
– Impersonation
While there are other forms, you get the picture. Pretty much the same as you might see in a ‘real world’ bullying incident.
What can we do about it?
The first thing to do is be aware (and make others aware) that cyberbullying is real and happens all the time. Awareness of a problem allows you to prepare for it. Teach your children, students, young adults, and parents/guardians about the methods used and how to recognize them. Then teach them how to deal with bullying appropriately.
Next is the part where you recognize and deal with the problem when/if it occurs. If you believe you or someone else is the victim of cyberbullying, reach out to an adult or law enforcement for assistance. Adults, such as parents or teachers, generally know how to deal with bullying properly. Local law enforcement will likely not have resources to deal with bullying, but they can point you to the agencies and personnel. The State Police usually have at least one unit that deals specifically with an online crime: cyberbullying. If you must, report it to your local FBI office. You can find more information about resources like this online, but you will find a few below.
The most important part of dealing with cyberbullying is recognizing it for what it is—an attempt to hurt or make you do something you otherwise wouldn’t. If someone is bullying you, stop communicating with them, and do not allow yourself to be troubled by what they are saying or doing again. Report them to the appropriate person or agency.
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Stay safe, use the resources available, and continue to enjoy your time online.
